Defining Yourself

“If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan.  And guess what they have planned for you?  Not much.”  ~ Jim Rohn Defining yourself and designing your own life starts with believing in yourself and by being yourself.  It’s actually quite simple.  Just be you.  Be yourself.  That’s […]

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Only You Can Save Yourself

Once you realize that there is no one else out there that is going to save you except for yourself, only then can you start living your best life. This should light a spark in you to know that no one else is going to do it for you.  That no one else is coming […]

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Forgiving Yourself

At some point you will realize that you need to forgive yourself as well.  You will have to accept that you took part in all of it and allowed the narcissist to break you down and take years of your life away.  It will be a hard truth to fess up to but you have […]

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Taking Back Your Power

Taking back your power from your abuser is crucial to you regaining your life and freedom.  He took you down, ripped you to pieces and then walked away like nothing ever happened.  He spread lies and told stories in order to lift himself up and take him on a new adventure of narcissism and control.  […]

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When You Just Let Life Happen

After you have finally accepted and forgiven those that have hurt you, you will be ready for life and what it has in store for you.  And you will probably be able to finally see it with joy and great anticipation as you will get a surge of new feelings, beginnings and awakenings.  You will […]

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