Forgiving Yourself

At some point you will realize that you need to forgive yourself as well.  You will have to accept that you took part in all of it and allowed the narcissist to break you down and take years of your life away.  It will be a hard truth to fess up to but you have […]

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Taking Back Your Power

Taking back your power from your abuser is crucial to you regaining your life and freedom.  He took you down, ripped you to pieces and then walked away like nothing ever happened.  He spread lies and told stories in order to lift himself up and take him on a new adventure of narcissism and control.  […]

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When You Just Let Life Happen

After you have finally accepted and forgiven those that have hurt you, you will be ready for life and what it has in store for you.  And you will probably be able to finally see it with joy and great anticipation as you will get a surge of new feelings, beginnings and awakenings.  You will […]

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Accepting What Happened To You

I think one of the hardest things to do is to finally accept everything that has happened to you.  All of the terrible things that were out of your control and still are.  And all of the hurt, sadness and confusion that you just cannot take away.  It will always be there no matter what.  […]

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My Wildflowers

So this is my very first post and I think I am just going to use this as an opportunity to talk about why I even started this in the first place and why I decided to call it, “My Wildflowers.” Honestly, I do not even know where the name came from.  This was a […]

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